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Nobody is born romantic. Like most things in life, being romantic is something that is learned. Although romantic gestures could seem like they come very easily to some men and women.

This is only since they’ve had lots of practice and mainly because they are in tune with what motivates the opposite sex. That’s all that’s involved.

Being romantic involves determining what your partner would like (not what they need to have!), and then discovering a unique way to meet those wants. Fairly simple, huh?

Let’s get one thing settled first. Being romantic is not about some grand extravagant gesture such as flying first class to Paris for a two week romantic blitz. It is about the little things. 

Little things are simple things that you do for your loved one. Despite the reality that they are “little” they can mean a great deal. It demonstrates that you took time from your busy life just to show them just how much you care. 

One thing that most people want, male and female, is to feel unique and loved. It is how you show them you love them is where the challenge comes in. Some men and women feel loved when they are told repeatedly that they’re loved. 

Others feel loved when they are touched often. And others see love in gestures and daily kindnesses.

Obviously, there are others that may possibly require all three of the above to actually feel loved and secure, but usually there is one need that dominates.

You need to discover what your significant other needs and then you can start working out what approach you’ll use to romance them. 

Not sure what your loved one prefers? Do an experiment and see how they respond?  You’ll very swiftly work it out.

What can you do in case your loved one wants to hear just how much you love them? You have to tell them.  But don’t just tell them and have it sounding like some type of robotic response to hi, goodbye, or please pass the pepper.

Consider unique methods you can get your message across. 

You could:

-Post them a good old-fashioned love letter.

-Send an intimate email.

-Text them a love message.

-Place a love note somewhere it’ll be found easily, in their automobile or lunch bag, under their pillow, or taped on the phone receiver, or even their computer.

-For the kid in all of us! Use multi-colored, sidewalk chalk to draw a big heart in red and write “I love you” in the middle of the heart. Do this someplace prominent like your driveway to ensure that when your partner comes home they will see it immediately.

-Make a long list of the several reasons why you love your companion and have the list framed and present it to them. 

-If you don’t live together, call your loved one to say goodnight and recite a favorite love poem over the telephone.

-Give your loved one a compliment about how great they look or what their smile does to you.

If your sweetheart needs frequent physical contact to feel loved you can:

-Give them a massage – backs and feet at the end of a work week is continually well received!

-Keep in physical contact as regularly as you can, as an example, when watching TV together, or eating dinner.

-Give them random hugs.

-Put your arm around your loved one in public.

-Hold hands as you walk side by side.

-Cuddle up in your pajamas and watch a romantic film together.

-Make sure you kiss them when you get home and kiss before you leave.

When your actions speak louder than words for your sweetheart then you will need to focus on gestures that express your emotions. You can try:

-While your significant other showers, heat up his or her towel in the dryer.

-Have flowers shipped to partner at work.

-Surprise your lover by arriving home with their favored drink, snack, or ice-cream.

-Prepare for an intimate lunch date with your partner. Then afterward, send a virtual card. Tell them how much you enjoyed lunch together.

-Phone your partner during the middle of the day to talk about your romantic plans for that evening.

-Write your own love coupon offering as their personal love slave.

-Make a favorite meal for your partner and then eat it, slowly, by candlelight.

-Choose a bouquet of wild flowers and offer them with a kiss.

-Call sporadically at their work to say “I am thinking about you.”

If they like all of the above then you can really go wild and mix it all up together. The only limit is your own imagination along with the desire to make it transpire. Sound good? Want additional advice? Search stylelife.com, themysterymethod com, and the mystery method.